Piggy’s Life

February 24, 2007

Work, work, work

Filed under: General — by gracieq @ 12:58 am

I’ve been working in a restaurant for nearly 3 months now. The pay’s pretty good but after all the taxes that I had to pay, I don’t see much of my income. But, I’m not too worried bout that cause come June/July, it’ll be tax return time and I’m very sure and confident that I’ll be getting all the money that I had payed for tax back into my pocket again.

Being a newbie who started really low in the ranks of restaurant staff, I guess I could say that I’ve progressed rather quickly to be put out on the floor and taking food orders now. When I first started out, all I did was polish cutleries and plates in the servery while sending food out. Then, I was still a lowly staff member, having to wear white shirts to work every day and was only able to carry 2 plates at a time. We newbies in the white were always ignored by the old staff and we’re practically invisible to them.

A month later, I was given the restaurant official shirt to wear and hence, was clearly identified as a staff member of the restaurant. Chefs from the kitchen and other staff members started to take notice of me and gradually started being more friendly towards me. I was still stuck in the servery then, but my status in the servery had somehow elevated slightly. I started carrying 3 plates to a table at a time and learned how to make coffees. I was given food training by my head supervisor and was taught how to use Palms to take customers’ order. I had more or less familiarised myself with the menu and was taught to memorise and recite the specials of the day. I learned how to set the table and also the right way and etiquette to use when approaching customers. Mind you, learning customer service is an important lesson in the restaurant because 90% of our customers are really rich people who earn millions and billions of dollars. They get really bitchy if our customer service is not satisfactory and I’ve seen how some of my supervisors had a go at some of my colleagues when they’re not performing well.

After all those training, I was still not put on the floor immediately though. However, I was soon trusted with the duty to direct newbies on what to do when we’re closing the servery every night because I ended up being the only one in the servery who knows everything that needed to be done before we could go home. Half the time, I was not needed to run the food out to the customers because I’ll be busy making cups after cups after cups of coffee. Within the time frame of a few weeks, nearly all the chefs in the kitchen remembered my name and started talking and joking around with me. The head of servery, who was generally a very nice guy, got even nicer towards me and started treating me with extra or leftover food from the kitchen once in while. We recently changed some dishes in the menu and he let me tried some of the new dishes when I went in to work.

Yesterday, for the first time ever, I was finally put on the floor. It was pretty overwhelming although I only had a really, really small section to look after because there were just so many things to do! Other than making sure that the customers are happy, I have to make sure that they have the right cutleries and glasses for whatever food or drinks that they had ordered. Also, I was so stressed out making sure that I do not screw up any orders before sending it to the kitchen and it was not busy at all yesterday! I never thought that they’ll put me on the floor again today since it’s a really busy day but surprisingly, they did. I have a bigger section today and really thought that I wasn’t doing too well looking after the customers. I keep forgetting things that needed to be done immediately and although I did them later, I was still not very happy with myself. I was in for a shock.

When I was clocking out of work earlier on, I had a quick chat with my head supervisor to find out about her opinion on my performance on the floor. I had geared myself up for some serious criticisms but to my surprise, she was actually very happy with my performance and said that I was doing really well. She said that she, together with one of the assistant manager, were both observing me throughout the day and night and they both thought that I did well. She mentioned that there was no complains about me from other colleagues and that some of them thought that I was doing good as a newbie on the floor.

It’s really nice to know that I’m doing better than I thought I was at work. No doubt that the work is not as easy as everyone think it is but I’m quite happy and contented working there. Yes, there are some ignorant and racist customers who made the day miserable but these people only come along once in a blue blue moon. Most of the customers really appreciate the service they received from us. Although I’m always tired like a dog by the end of the night after a long day’s work, knowing that people actually appreciate and are happy do invoke a warm sense of happiness in me. Sounds funny and weird right? But that’s just me.

It’s a really good experience working in a restaurant and I’ve become more appreciative towards F&B staff these days. Frankly, I think I’ll miss the work and people in the restaurant when I have to stop working and go back to Malaysia for good. Oh well, life goes on…

Happy Chinese New Year!

Filed under: General — by gracieq @ 12:03 am

Yeah, yeah…it’s a week late, but it’s still Chinese New Year, so here’s wishing everyone a wonderful and prosperous year in this golden piggy year! Seeing that I’m a pig myself, here’s hoping that everything will go well for me and the other piglets in this year of ours!

February 14, 2007

Happy Valentine’s Day!

Filed under: General — by gracieq @ 2:56 am

To everybody out there, whether you’re celebrating it or not celebrating it, Happy Valentine’s Day!! Do say “I love you”s to the people you love but don’t forget to also say it on other days too! I hope everybody will have a good time today because God knows, I’m going to be stuck at work the whole day, watching couples canoodling while serving them food.

>_<

HAPPY VALENTINE’S DAY!!

February 11, 2007

Quote #2

Filed under: Random Quotes — by gracieq @ 6:44 pm

Remember to be kind to the unkind people, they need it the most!   -Anoynymous

February 7, 2007

Does love need a reason?

Filed under: Love — by gracieq @ 12:42 am

The following story was forwarded to my email from a friend. Just want to share the story cause it makes sense. Enjoy!

Lady: Why do you like me ? Why do you love me?

Man: I can’t tell you the reason…but I really do like you.

Lady: You can’t even tell me the reason. How can you tell me you like me? How can you say you love me?

Man:  I really don’t know the reason. But I can prove that I love you.

Lady: Proof? No! I want you to tell me the reason. My friend’s boyfriend can tell her he loves her but not you!

Man: Ok..ok!! Erm…because you are beautiful, because your voice is sweet, because you are caring, because you are loving, because you are thoughtful, because of your smile, because of your every movements.

The lady felt very satisfied with the man’s answer. Unfortunately, a few days later, the lady met with an accident and went into a coma. The man then place a letter by her side and here is the content:

Darling,

Because of your sweet voice, I love you. Now, can you talk? NO! Therefore I cannot love you?

Because of your care and concern, I like you. Now that you cannot show them, therefor I cannot love you?

Because of your smile, because of your every movements, I love you. Now can you smile? Now can you move? NO! Therefore I cannot love you?

If love needs a reason like now, there is no reason for me to love you anymore. 

Does love need a reason? No!

Therefore, I still love you…And love doesn’t need a reason.

Sometimes, the best and the most beautiful things in the world cannot be seen, cannot be touched, but can be felt in the heart.

February 4, 2007

Break ups are never easy

Filed under: Love — by gracieq @ 7:49 pm

Since the beginning of time and the creation of the world, God had created every living thing lovingly. Adam and Eve were both created to not only love each other unconditionally for eternity but also to love God forever. However, we all knew what happened next and from then onwards, we humans were not only subjected to endure all sorts of obstacles in life (both physically and emotionally) but we were also indirectly given a task by God to find our one true love in order to procreate.

The task of finding a partner that you would want to spend the rest of your life with is not easy. Along the way of finding THE ONE, many of us were blinded by the illusion of love and made mistakes that open up our eyes to the ugly truth of reality, which at the same time, made us grow up a little. Despite falling down from the pedestal so many times, a lot of us still plough on in the journey of finding THE ONE, constantly keeping hopes alive that he/she is just around the corner.

To start a new relationship is relatively easy. It is always easy to fall in love with someone. However, it’s the end of the relationship that is the hardest to deal with. There can be many reasons that could lead to the demise of a relationship – falling out of love, changes in personality and goals for the future, cheating, distance, etc. Whatever the reason is, it is never an easy decision to make because both parties had already invested a lot of love, time and tears to try to make it work in the first place. Whether the decision to end the relationship is decided by only one party or whether it is a mutual decision made by both, when a relationship ended between two people, the post-relationship days are never easy on either the breaker or breakee.

What next after the break up? Do you stay friends with the ex? Or severe all ties with him/her? The decision varies among individuals and many reasons have to be taken into account before a final decision can be made. First, what’s the main reason for the break up? Then, how are you and/or the ex taking the break up so far? How do you and/or the ex feel about each other after the break up? And the questions go on. In the end, after considering so many questions and reasons, the decision whether to stay friends or severe all ties can be made.

If you decide to stay friends with the ex, you should still give each other some time to heal the wounds that the break up cause before attempting to initiate any contact as friends. Keeping in touch immediately as friends after the break up will only arise the hope of a reconciliation and before you know it, you and the ex are back at square one going through the whole cycle all over again. Yet, if you could stay friends with the ex after healing the wounds, it is really an admirable feat. Not many couples always manage to stay as friends after a break up.

Looking back at my own experiences, many things happened after a break up. Sometimes, I stay friends with an ex. Sometimes, I choose to severe all ties with them. So, whoever said that break ups are easy?

February 1, 2007

Quote #1

Filed under: Random Quotes — by gracieq @ 5:14 pm

Sometimes, no matter how secure you are in someone’s arms and no matter how tightly you hold on to this person’s hand, you’ll find yourself falling dangerously in love with someone else…- Anonymous

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